March 15, 2008

from bottom to top

I'm not usually one for the polls, but since Liz Feldman mentioned it on the afterellen-vlog We're getting nowhere I am interested in your opinions. Feldman was referring to Jenny and Niki having sex on the L word as "that's what happens when two bottoms have sex".

And now I want to know from you (in the comments): what does happen when two bottoms have sex? what happens with two tops?

edit: this doesn't only apply to the gay. post away whether you're straight/gay/bi/omni/...


for more on tops and bottoms check fellow blogger reasonably prudent poet's sexblog.

3 comments:

reasonably prudent poet said...

hey, thanks for the link! i'm waiting for my popularity to skyrocket and every link helps. :-)

i wish i'd seen that L Word episode because i have no idea what that comment is supposed to mean in that context.

i'm not sure what happens when two bottoms or two tops have sex, mostly b/c i'm a switch, but i do know what it's like for me when i'm in a bottom mood and i try to have sex with a bottom. it's boring and we're both sort of playing along half-assed waiting for the other to wake up and take charge. when i'm in a top mood trying to have sex with a top, there's a lot of jockeying for control, which can be fun when it leads to wrestling and what-not, but can also be frustrating when all you want is to top somebody.

so there's my two-cents worth. thanks for bringing it up.

Shazza said...

Hmmmm, I don't think I know enough on the subject to give an opinion...pehraps I need to do some research! ;)

mccutcheon said...

@ poet: thanks for commenting.

@shazza: damned be you if you don't come back here after your research and share ;)